We’re fairly certain all mammals experience emotions;
homo sapiens perform these as art.
Empathy is the ability to understand and share in the emotions of another.

The problem with empathy is that I expect others to have it.

Empathy in a relationship

I have empathy for you sometimes;
mostly I’m in my own head.
But I expect you always to have empathy for me;
why are you stuck in your own head?

Why are you so insensitive?
I am hurt.

Empathy in more complex relationships

I have empathy for my tribe.
You have empathy for yours.
But, here I imagine a finite resource.

I am afraid of what you might do.
I will do it to you first.

Empathy is a central theme writing most emotions, however,
expectation of empathy is a terrible judge of intent.

Empathy on the highway

I’m a conscientious driver.
You cut me off you no-good, mother…

Oh, you’re rushing your kid to the hospital.

How to fix?

Refrain from assuming intent.
(throw away expectations)
Have few friends.